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INVESTING IN YOUR FUTURE
by
Rabbi David Zauderer
There are some mighty strange words in the beginning of this week’s Torah portion. The Torah starts off by stating, "These are the offspring of Noah." But instead of listing his sons and daughters right after that, the Torah tells us, "Noah was a righteous man, perfect in his generation." What gives?
There are some mighty strange words in the beginning of this week’s Torah
portion. The Torah starts off by stating, "These are the offspring of
Noah." But instead of listing his sons and daughters right after that,
the Torah tells us, "Noah was a righteous man, perfect in his
generation." What gives?
Rashi, the preeminent Torah commentator, explains that the Torah wanted to
teach us that the primary "offspring" of the righteous are their
good deeds. Sounds interesting, but what does that mean? Do you think that
Moses took out his wallet everywhere he went showing people a matzah he ate
last Passover?!! The truth is that in these few words of our sages lie a
profound message that can have a tremendous impact on all of us in our daily
lives.
The dream of every Jewish parent is for their child to become a doctor or to
be employed in some other major profession. To that end, they will spare no
expense. No Jew has ever been heard to say, "My son got accepted to
Yale. I think I’ll try to put together half the tuition. That’s all I’m
prepared to do to advance my Harold’s education." It would never
happen! We do whatever it takes to get our children where we want them to
be.
Did you ever wonder why that is? What motivates us to sacrifice so much that
our children become the doctor or lawyer? And to such an extent that we
often tend to neglect our own needs, spiritual or otherwise, just so that
our children get accepted into a good school.
I believe that the prime motivation of our self-sacrifice lies in the basic,
human need that we all share--the need to establish a legacy--something
about us, an extension of ourselves, that will live on after we’re gone. Our
prominent and successful children are our legacy, and to maintain that
legacy, we will go to great lengths.
What the Torah is trying to teach us here is, that as important as it is to
sacrifice on behalf of our children in order to help them become top
professionals in their respective fields as a lasting legacy to ourselves,
there is an even greater legacy--the good deeds and worthwhile things, like
mitzvah observance and character refinement, that we accomplish in our own
lifetimes. A great philosopher once wrote, "The days of our lives are
like the pages in a notebook--write in them what you want remembered about
you." Ultimately, it is the mitzvot and good deeds that we perform in
our lives that are our true legacy--because these deeds affect how we will
be remembered after we’re gone, and they will accompany us into the Next
World long after our children retire from the medical profession.
So let’s remember the next time we do a mitzvah not to be satisfied with
mediocrity. "I gave a little charity, that’s enough", or, "We
already went to a Torah study group this year!", or, "I can put up
half the tuition for my kid’s Hebrew school. That’s all I’m prepared to
do." These important tasks are our true legacy. That’s all we have when
we die. So let’s invest wisely as we fill up our notebooks.
Rabbi David Zauderer is a card-carrying member of the Atlanta Scholars Kollel. You are invited to read more Parshat Noach articles. Would you recommend this article to a friend? Let us know by sending an e-mail to editor@tfdixie.com |